Stop All The Clocks – Funeral Blues – Funeral Poem by W.H.Auden

Stop All The Clocks – Funeral Blues – Funeral Poem by W.H.Auden

Stop All The Clocks – Funeral Blues – Funeral Poem by W.H.Auden

Read by Marc Lemezma Funeral Celebrant

 

This poem is as fascinating as it is deceptive. It may seem familiar to you because it was used in the movie “Four Weddings and a Funeral”.

The opening lines fool you into thinking this may be a funny or humorous piece. However, line by line, the author’s anger, grief, and desolation become ever more apparent.

Published by W.H.Auden in 1938, it was initially part of a play and was considerably longer. It deftly explores the anger and resentment the author feels towards the rest of the world. Whilst they go about their business, as usual, he is bereft.

This new shortened version is sometimes spoken at funerals, especially by or on behalf of the deceased’s partner.

Stop all the clocks, cut off the telephone,
Prevent the dog from barking with a juicy bone,
Silence the pianos and with muffled drum
Bring out the coffin, let the mourners come.

Let aeroplanes circle moaning overhead
Scribbling on the sky the message He Is Dead,
Put crepe bows round the white necks of the public doves,
Let the traffic policemen wear black cotton gloves.

He was my North, my South, my East and West,
My working week and my Sunday rest,
My noon, my midnight, my talk, my song;
I thought that love would last for ever: I was wrong.

The stars are not wanted now: put out every one;
Pack up the moon and dismantle the sun;
Pour away the ocean and sweep up the wood.
For nothing now can ever come to any good.

Poetry is written to be shared, read and heard. Can I share or use this poetry? The poems I share on my website or social media are original or are regularly used at funerals and are presented to aid those researching poetry for use at their loved one's funeral service.. Wherever known, I do give credit and thanks to the author. If you know the author of any I have marked as ‘unknown’, then let me know, and I will amend the page. If you chose to share or use the poetry at a funeral or memorial service, please give the author credit. Many of these poems are original to me; please feel free to share those or use them if they seem right for your service. All I ask is that you give credit to the author.

 

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Funeral Poem – Idyll – by Siegfried Sassoon

Funeral Poem – Idyll – by Siegfried Sassoon

Funeral Poem – Idyll – by Siegfried Sassoon

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Funeral Poem – Idyll – by Siegfried Sassoon

Sassoon is perhaps best known as a war poet. His poems are sometimes difficult reads, because of the brutality of the topic.

This poem, is more gentle and has inspired many readings at funerals.

It counteracts his other work with a message of hope and dreams; there is a glimmer of reconciliation in these words.

Perhaps they can be nought but a dream, only time will tell. Yet the author continues to dream of each new day.

In the grey summer garden I shall find you

With day-break and the morning hills behind you.

There will be rain-wet roses; stir of wings;

And down the wood a thrush that wakes and sings.

Not from the past you’ll come, but from that deep

Where beauty murmurs to the soul asleep:

And I shall know the sense of life re-born

From dreams into the mystery of morn

Where gloom and brightness meet.

And standing there Till that calm song is done,

at last we’ll share The league-spread, quiring symphonies

that are Joy in the world,

and peace, and dawn’s one star.

Poetry is written to be shared, read and heard. Can I share or use this poetry? The poems I share on my website or social media are original or are regularly used at funerals and are presented to aid those researching poetry for use at their loved one's funeral service.. Wherever known, I do give credit and thanks to the author. If you know the author of any I have marked as ‘unknown’, then let me know, and I will amend the page. If you chose to share or use the poetry at a funeral or memorial service, please give the author credit. Many of these poems are original to me; please feel free to share those or use them if they seem right for your service. All I ask is that you give credit to the author.

 

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There is No Light Without a Dawning by Helen Steiner Rice – Funeral Poem

There is No Light Without a Dawning by Helen Steiner Rice – Funeral Poem

There is No Light Without a Dawning by Helen Steiner Rice – Funeral Poem –

Read by Marc Lemezma Funeral Celebrant

 

A small Easter gift for you. At this time of year, Christians contemplate loss and renewal.

We realise without one there cannot be the other, just as day follows night.

This brief but strong poem by Helen Steiner Rice is often spoken at funerals. It reminds us of that universal truth.

These words will have impact for everyone, no matter what your faith, or even if you have none.

No winter without a spring And beyond the dark horizon

Our hearts will once more sing ….

For those who leave us for a while Have only gone away

Out of a restless, care worn world Into a brighter day.

Poetry is written to be shared, read and heard. Can I share or use this poetry? The poems I share on my website or social media are original or are regularly used at funerals and are presented to aid those researching poetry for use at their loved one's funeral service.. Wherever known, I do give credit and thanks to the author. If you know the author of any I have marked as ‘unknown’, then let me know, and I will amend the page. If you chose to share or use the poetry at a funeral or memorial service, please give the author credit. Many of these poems are original to me; please feel free to share those or use them if they seem right for your service. All I ask is that you give credit to the author.

 

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Funeral Poem – Millennial Memorial by Marc Lemezma Celebrant

Funeral Poem – Millennial Memorial by Marc Lemezma Celebrant

Funeral Poem – Millennial Memorial by Marc Lemezma Celebrant

Read by Marc Lemezma – Funeral Celebrant

 

About 20 years ago, I first experienced a somewhat prescient dilemma. Nowadays, this problem is more greatly amplified.

I needed to add an important business contact into the phonebook on my old Nokia mobile phone, but I could not! The SIM card could only hold 20 numbers; mine was full.

I looked to see which I could delete; all were for people I needed to call regularly, except one; my sister.

She had died six months earlier, and although her number was by then disconnected, I could not bring myself to delete her entry. It simply felt wrong, like I was dismissing her memory.

Today, our lives are being managed on phones, tablets and apps, leaving the correct way to reach closure just as unclear to many.

Millennial Memorial by Marc Lemezma

I can click and look at your profile picture
I can read your words online
I can hear your tone in your voicemail greeting
I can replay it a thousand times

I can smile at a childish photo filter
I can laugh at the comments you made
I can like what so many said about you
I can replay every level you played

I can plough through unanswered emails
I can delete whole shelves full of spam
I can cancel direct debits and bank transactions
I can see you once fell for a scam

I can re-read each time you texted I love you
I can scroll past where you made me cry
I can hover my finger over the delete all button
But I’ll pause, so I can keep you alive

Poetry is written to be shared, read and heard.

Poetry is written to be shared, read and heard.

Can I share or use this poetry?

The poems I share on my website or social media are original or are regularly used at funerals and are presented to aid those researching poetry for use at their loved one's funeral service.. Wherever known, I do give credit and thanks to the author. If you know the author of any I have marked as ‘unknown’, then let me know, and I will amend the page.

If you chose to share or use the poetry at a funeral or memorial service, please give the author credit.

Many of these poems are original to me; please feel free to share those or use them if they seem right for your service. All I ask is that you give credit to me as the author.

 

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Where Did I Go – I’m in My Element: A Poignant Original Funeral Poem Reflecting on Life’s Final Journey

Where Did I Go – I’m in My Element: A Poignant Original Funeral Poem Reflecting on Life’s Final Journey

Introduction

The act of scattering ashes is a deeply personal and symbolic gesture that represents the final farewell to a loved one. The poem “Where Did I Go – I’m in My Element” reflects on the journey of our loved ones after they have passed, inviting us to ponder their presence in nature and the lasting connection we share with them. It is a beautiful reminder that their essence remains with us, enriching our lives and the world around us.

The Poem

“Do you ever look up and wonder, where did I go
Do I drift with the clouds in the sky
Or should I dance with the birds in wild murmuration
Do their wings form my image as they fly

Did I rush down the head-race and into the stream
Am I caught in cold current flow
Or shall I drift in a pool in warm saturation
Where my essence feeds the reeds as they grow

Or can I be felt in the ground that you walk on
Am I where ashes haphazardly lie
Or should I hide in the ground at your chosen location
And enrich the soil with my life

You know; you saw; those curtains did close
And when I go, that moment brings sorrow
Should I see this as my last contribution
To the cycle of life that we follow

But there is no need to search; I float all around you
I lived in your life from my start
Perhaps you could see this as just a migration
I’m in my element, and I live in your heart”

Reflection

This poem uses vivid imagery to explore the various ways in which the essence of our loved ones may continue to exist in nature. Whether they are part of the clouds, the birds, the water, or the earth, their presence is felt in the world around us. It offers comfort by suggesting that even in death, they contribute to the cycle of life and remain close to our hearts.

Use in Memorial Services

“Where Did I Go – I’m in My Element” is a touching addition to any memorial service, offering solace and a sense of continuity. Its gentle and reflective tone makes it suitable for readings, eulogies, or printed programs. It can help mourners find peace in the thought that their loved ones’ essence is ever-present and that their final journey is one of transformation and ongoing connection.

Scattering ashes is a profound act of letting go and celebrating the life of a loved one. This poem provides a comforting perspective on this process, reminding us that our loved ones’ essence lives on in the natural world and within our hearts. It is a beautiful tribute to those we have lost and a source of comfort for those who remai